Well Chalky i think you have hit the nail squarley on the head with your reply. Back in the days of the Torch,Mecca,catacombs,Casino you actually did get very mixed spots from all the dj's playing in demanders and some obscure stuff as well. The reason for this is that almost everything that was being played at the time was relativly new to all in attendance, both soul fans dj's and record collectors alike. The soul scene and its rapidly expanding portfolio of infectious "northern" dance music had no history for comparison as to wether it was new or an oldie!!. Therefore you did get the obligatrory 5+ records that were not the norm and then some.
There have been many exceellent posts on this thread with many touching on the "better known" tunes against the "lesser known" tunes and suggestions on what works and what does not. I believe there now exists clear sections within the soul fraternity consisting of The same old,same old crowd-The norther soul followers and The rare/crossover/70's group. It would be almost an impossibility these days to get tunes from the last of these groups played at the previous two which is as you say Chalky is sad. What seems to work at many venues these days is the two/three room option which gives everbody the oppertunity to sample all generes of soul music so allowing everyone in attendance to listen and dance to whatever they please. Prestatyn,Brid Weekender are for me the leaders here and others like Bury,Barnsley Metrodome to mention a few will bring on the youth and convert some of the die hard oldies fans to a different outlook on what is soul music.
I myself was very much from the school of oldies and nothing else until about five years back when firstly events like Soul in the Sun started changing my perspective and oulook about soul music. Followed by the weekenders listed above along with Red Bar,Empress,Metrodome and many others i now frequent for a taste of something different. The only music i dont take to is R & B as it is exactly what it says on the tin, rythm and Blues.
Now reaching for my tin hat and bullet proof vest while avoiding the shots from the r&b fans out there.
ROY