Matt
I'm with you that's about as close as it gets for me too......you forgot some Latin
No perfect spot a good dj should read the room & some of the best for me over the years have been Arthur Fenn,Bob Hinsley & Roger Banks..........not always playing stuff I prefer but there reading of the room is usually top class.
I love dj's with conviction in what they are playing even if it's not quite right for me,to see there love for there music is a buzz in it's self.
Cheers
Martyn