Try going to a rock n roll night,reggae night,trance night ,and tell 'em they've got it wrong.
Find out what a venue does,if you like it ,go,if you don't ,then don't.!!
Most venues ad themselves well.Easy to spot the 100mph niters from the more laid back nights,from the R n B nights.
If you go somewhere and the music's not to your taste,maybe you've got it wrong.
Then again i spend half the night talking ,a quarter dancing, the rest listening and looking thru sales boxes....so what do i know.
Last thing,i've been to many soul nights over the years and had a fantastic night without stepping foot on the dancefloor.