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  1. Brian, we both always admired your gentleness and easy going, helpful manner. I know you can empathise with my feelings, and your strength in getting through your loss gives me hope for the future, although a future without Helen is truly unimaginable. Thankyou. XXX Ian
  2. Gilly, lovely to hear from you. I know you thought the world of Helen, from the earliest memories of 'lifts' and serious music talk. Fondest memories of good times on the scene together. Your support and affection is greatly appreciated. XXX Pep
  3. Macca, thankyou for taking to time to read my tribute and leaving such a nice comment. Much appreciated. XXX Pep
  4. Tony, thankyou for sharing your memories. We always loved and remembered your plain, honest 'niceness' (and dapper turnout). XXX Pep
  5. Ted, Thankyou for your fond memories of Helen. You two got on great in those many great Black Horse years. I know you too suffered a great loss a few years ago and appreciate the heartbreak I am feeling... you know "the feeling is real". xxx Ian.
  6. Hi Tim, Thankyou for your thoughts. We always had lovely memories of times together with you in Wolves and Coventry. XXX Pep
  7. Background information on the passing of a well-known and much loved personality from the West Midlands' Soul Scene followed by funeral and wake dance details (PLEASE LOOK AT FUNERAL INFORMATION, AS THERE HAS BEEN A CHANGE TO THE EVENING SOUL DANCE ARRANGEMENTS). My beloved wife and soulmate of 40 years, Helen who died recently of cancer, aged only 58, after a rollercoaster struggle with the scourge for 18 months. Helen Pereira - "Queen Of The Go-Go" Being born in Dudley and living in the Black Country for most of her early life, Helen became a fan of soul music at a very early age, in 1967. She hailed from a working class, council estate background but soon discovered a wonderful, exciting escape where she could be 'lost in music'. Soulful dance music. She attended local discotheques like those at Stewart & LLoyd's, Bilston where she first began to hone her considerable dance skills. Most DJs of the time favoured Soul and Motown music which was simply made for dancing - and so became the original discotheque music. Always searching for bigger and better venues, where the 'sounds' were played first, she found herself drawn to the UK's premier soul clubs like the Catacombs, Twisted Wheel, Chateau Impney, UTJ, Bankhouse and Terry Heath's amongst others. She soon began attending these venues religiously every week. Be certain, the atmosphere was electric in these places, and like many other young souls, she soon became hooked, as it turned out, for life. She was without doubt the darling of Wolverhampton's legendary Catacombs Club in the late sixties and early seventies... the 'queen of the go-go' if you like. There was always a crowd around her - a buzz, an excitement. She was at the centre of the Midlands' scene, the life and soul of the party, the best dancer out there - backdrops, frontdrops, spins, the lot. Everyone wanted to know her, be with her... a magnet. She was right at the hub of the 'in crowd', and stunning with it. I (and my mates) could only admire from afar in those early days. I was fortunate enough to get to to know Helen in 1972, and we became a couple in 1973, famously getting engaged after just two weeks - so it was bound to last forever! She even forgave me for spending most of the engagement ring money on a rare record, which I needed to play that night at the Cats, where I had since become a Saturday night ('the rare soul night') resident DJ alongside Alan 'S' and Blue Max. Once again she became the iconic image of the soul scene, with her jump suits, pigtails and backdrops. Blues & Soul magazine certainly thought so - and said so. It was just fabulous having her by my side whilst residing over the Cats' most successful period; the summer of '73. The music was amazing, with a whole new stream of great 'new sounds' flooding in from the USA courtesy of, in the main, Simon Soussan and Martin Koppel. We certainly led the way, music-wise, that summer. Nobody could touch us - we were first with almost everything. As the scene grew in popularity with the rise of Wigan Casino, she happily supported me in my spell as a resident DJ there, as well as at the Cleethorpes Pier all-nighters, and Tiffany's, Newcastle every Sunday. She always got on great (better than me!) with my Co-DJs Colin Curtis, Richard Searling, Soul Sam, Ian Levine, Russ Winstanley, Keith Minshull, Dave Evison, Ginger & Eddie, John Vincent, Brian Rae, John Manship, etc. There were many, many others and I'm bound to have missed somebody really important, so apologies in advance for that. I could write a book about our adventures on the scene together, and hope to someday.Her taste in music was impeccable, and her dancing ability gave her an unrivalled insight into a record's suitability or potential. So much so, many top DJs ran tunes by her for her opinion. I can name many records she helped make 'big' and many which owe their success and popularity entirely to her constant pestering of top DJs. After opening and running a record shop in Wolverhampton in the mid-seventies Helen inadvertantly adopted the role of 'maternal soul mother' to a whole new young generation of soul boys and girls who were just beginning their Northern Soul journey. They looked to her for first hand insights into the scene and music which had been, and remained, her life for so long. They all respected her and soon grew to love her for the ever-friendly and helpful person she was. Of course she had a tougher, more stubborn side, but I guarantee, on the odd occasion she scolded anyone, they knew they'd been scolded and they knew they deserved it! She was also there in 1985/6, at the forefront of the battle to save and revive a scene which was on the brink of extinction. Slowly but surely we both, along with a select few others, managed to revive and stimulate the heartbeat which is Northern Soul. As a result the Soul Scene survived its darkest days and has since blossomed further and become the most durable and influential niche music in the world. Serious, credible and perenially enjoyable. More recently Helen and I took the difficult, but conscious decision to take a sabaticle to bring up our son. Accordingly we have not been very active on the scene of late, but we have kept quietly abreast of events. Those, then youngsters - her soul children if you like from her days in the shop - are now at the core of the scene. To their eternal credit they are also at the crest of the wave of love and respect being shown for her now, in her untimely death. They have been wonderful. Everyone has been. I feel humbled. I love them all. I know one thing for certain. She will be up there dancing 'til the end of time, and I long for the day when I can join her. Until then I will give our son the best start in life I can - my last promise to her. I'll love her forever. I feel so bad. Devoted husband and lifelong soulmate, Ian Pereira ('Pep'). ------------------------------------- Funeral information: Helen will be buried at St.Mary's Church, Oldswinford, Stourbridge on Thursday 26tth April, Service starts at 2pm. Everyone who has known or been touched by Helen or myself is welcome. Please be respectful and dress appropriately. Flowers are welcome at the church or funeral parlour. Family and friends will be exchanging stories and taking drinks immediately afterwards. As Helen would have loved and wanted, this will be followed in the evening by a "Wake Soul Dance" at the superb, well known soul venue the CONNAUGHT HOTEL, Tettenhall Road, Wolverhampton where we will all celebrate the other love of both our lives: 'Northern Soul'. It has been necessary to move to the nearby Connaught for two reasons: because the Mount was insisting on all the DJs having insurance, and, we now need a bigger venue (the Connaught holds 400). The evening dance will start around 8.30pm - 1am. Smart dress and impeccable behaviour only please, out of respect for a beautiful, loving person. She will want you to enjoy yourselves, celebrating her life and loves, so there'll be no sad faces, no sad songs. Please make this day into the most memorable of my life. My little girl deserves it more than anyone I know. Love, Ian.
  8. Background information on the passing of a well-known and much loved personality from the West Midlands' Soul Scene Tap to view this Soul Source News/Article in full


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