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  1. Hi Brian, thanks for your thoughts. We three had a common friend in Alan 'S' who also sadly passed on a few years ago. You may not have known her then, but she was the girl doing those backdrops at the Wheel. You should put the '45' into your monika, because for me you are the scene's greatest unsung hero. You introduced so many great sounds through those record lists of yours. Thankyou for thinking of the love of my life. My heart cries for her, and always will. XXX Pep
  2. Sean, Thankyou for your love, friendship and support... as always. Your smile, enthusiasm and reliability were always admired by us both. XXX Pep
  3. Chalky, thankyou for your sincere thoughts. Keep the Black Country soul flag flying for us both. Keep the region near the forefront of the scene, where it belongs. Helen was always adamant about that. Great to hear from you. XXX Pep
  4. Mark, Thankyou for heartfelt post. I understand a lot of you young soulies looked up to us then, and it was inspiring. But as you say neither of regarded ourselves as special. We never put ourselves above anyone, and always loved being with you guys. Helen especially had time, and then some, for everyone. Dancing and being a part of the dancefloor was the most important thing for both of us. Thank you again Mark. XXX Pep
  5. Munchkin & Munchkinette, It's so wonderful to see you still keep the knickname Helen bestowed on you Kev in the shop. You were her cute little 'munchkin' and very apt it was at the time... although perhaps not when you were trying to trade a leg of lamb for a couple of the latest Northern releases! A lot of her knicknames, made with affection, have also stood the test of time. If she was only remembered for those it would be enough. Thankyou for sharing those lovely anecdotes. Being on the door with her made you privvy to one I didn't know... but can easily believe, knowing Smokey's (love him too) oft hilarious antics all these years. She never forgot anyone, especially the likes of your mate Graham, Mick Vickers and Phil Shelton who were taken so young. The love you Kev and Sharon show for her is clear for all to see. XXX Pep
  6. Thankyou too Rick. We always loved your modest, understated way. A breath of fresh air in an increasingly fast and furious world. Much like yourself, she was always gentle, a calm and friendly face. You could say she was my 'foil'. Thankyou for sharing your memories. XXX Pep
  7. Nige Brown Hi Nige, thankyou for your lovely comments and friendship. You were always someone we both liked and respected. We knew your strong character and steadfast perseverence would bring just and much deserved rewards. Much appreciated. XXX Pep
  8. Thankyou Pete. You have always been one of our best and most vivid memories of that late seventies, Wigan/Locarno era. Silly, clever and funny at the same time. I recall Helen's nursing skills being called into action more than once! Wonderful, happy memories. I'm glad you met Helen in your early years on the scene. You are certainly one of the 'soul children' I refer to. It will be great to see the old Wombourne guys and gals again. Love you lots. XXX Ian
  9. Dear Ste (Winsford), thankyou. Helen had an affinity for the word 'tears'. She was a very emotional person deep down. Many of her favourite songs contained the word... "Room full of tears", "Tearstained face" and "Tears of joy" to name three. I have them in my eyes too. Constantly. XXX Pep
  10. Too true Steve, thankyou for reading and appreciating my simple words. Your thoughts and kindness give me strength. XXX Pep
  11. Dear Ade & Jane, I'm so happy you remembered Helen so fondly from that great era. She touched a lot of people at a lot of different times. Her friendliness was always in the on position. XXX Pep
  12. Chalky, we both liked seeing a newer face continuing the tradition and carrying the Motown & Soul flag for our Black Country homeland. Keep smiling, smiler. The world needs more smiling faces. XXX Pep
  13. Dave Burton, thankyou for taking time out to read and comment with such affection. We always regarded you as a strong and perpetual voice in our small corner of the Black Music landscape. Many thanks. XXX Pep
  14. Brian, we both always admired your gentleness and easy going, helpful manner. I know you can empathise with my feelings, and your strength in getting through your loss gives me hope for the future, although a future without Helen is truly unimaginable. Thankyou. XXX Ian
  15. Gilly, lovely to hear from you. I know you thought the world of Helen, from the earliest memories of 'lifts' and serious music talk. Fondest memories of good times on the scene together. Your support and affection is greatly appreciated. XXX Pep
  16. Macca, thankyou for taking to time to read my tribute and leaving such a nice comment. Much appreciated. XXX Pep
  17. Tony, thankyou for sharing your memories. We always loved and remembered your plain, honest 'niceness' (and dapper turnout). XXX Pep
  18. Ted, Thankyou for your fond memories of Helen. You two got on great in those many great Black Horse years. I know you too suffered a great loss a few years ago and appreciate the heartbreak I am feeling... you know "the feeling is real". xxx Ian.
  19. Hi Tim, Thankyou for your thoughts. We always had lovely memories of times together with you in Wolves and Coventry. XXX Pep
  20. Background information on the passing of a well-known and much loved personality from the West Midlands' Soul Scene followed by funeral and wake dance details (PLEASE LOOK AT FUNERAL INFORMATION, AS THERE HAS BEEN A CHANGE TO THE EVENING SOUL DANCE ARRANGEMENTS). My beloved wife and soulmate of 40 years, Helen who died recently of cancer, aged only 58, after a rollercoaster struggle with the scourge for 18 months. Helen Pereira - "Queen Of The Go-Go" Being born in Dudley and living in the Black Country for most of her early life, Helen became a fan of soul music at a very early age, in 1967. She hailed from a working class, council estate background but soon discovered a wonderful, exciting escape where she could be 'lost in music'. Soulful dance music. She attended local discotheques like those at Stewart & LLoyd's, Bilston where she first began to hone her considerable dance skills. Most DJs of the time favoured Soul and Motown music which was simply made for dancing - and so became the original discotheque music. Always searching for bigger and better venues, where the 'sounds' were played first, she found herself drawn to the UK's premier soul clubs like the Catacombs, Twisted Wheel, Chateau Impney, UTJ, Bankhouse and Terry Heath's amongst others. She soon began attending these venues religiously every week. Be certain, the atmosphere was electric in these places, and like many other young souls, she soon became hooked, as it turned out, for life. She was without doubt the darling of Wolverhampton's legendary Catacombs Club in the late sixties and early seventies... the 'queen of the go-go' if you like. There was always a crowd around her - a buzz, an excitement. She was at the centre of the Midlands' scene, the life and soul of the party, the best dancer out there - backdrops, frontdrops, spins, the lot. Everyone wanted to know her, be with her... a magnet. She was right at the hub of the 'in crowd', and stunning with it. I (and my mates) could only admire from afar in those early days. I was fortunate enough to get to to know Helen in 1972, and we became a couple in 1973, famously getting engaged after just two weeks - so it was bound to last forever! She even forgave me for spending most of the engagement ring money on a rare record, which I needed to play that night at the Cats, where I had since become a Saturday night ('the rare soul night') resident DJ alongside Alan 'S' and Blue Max. Once again she became the iconic image of the soul scene, with her jump suits, pigtails and backdrops. Blues & Soul magazine certainly thought so - and said so. It was just fabulous having her by my side whilst residing over the Cats' most successful period; the summer of '73. The music was amazing, with a whole new stream of great 'new sounds' flooding in from the USA courtesy of, in the main, Simon Soussan and Martin Koppel. We certainly led the way, music-wise, that summer. Nobody could touch us - we were first with almost everything. As the scene grew in popularity with the rise of Wigan Casino, she happily supported me in my spell as a resident DJ there, as well as at the Cleethorpes Pier all-nighters, and Tiffany's, Newcastle every Sunday. She always got on great (better than me!) with my Co-DJs Colin Curtis, Richard Searling, Soul Sam, Ian Levine, Russ Winstanley, Keith Minshull, Dave Evison, Ginger & Eddie, John Vincent, Brian Rae, John Manship, etc. There were many, many others and I'm bound to have missed somebody really important, so apologies in advance for that. I could write a book about our adventures on the scene together, and hope to someday.Her taste in music was impeccable, and her dancing ability gave her an unrivalled insight into a record's suitability or potential. So much so, many top DJs ran tunes by her for her opinion. I can name many records she helped make 'big' and many which owe their success and popularity entirely to her constant pestering of top DJs. After opening and running a record shop in Wolverhampton in the mid-seventies Helen inadvertantly adopted the role of 'maternal soul mother' to a whole new young generation of soul boys and girls who were just beginning their Northern Soul journey. They looked to her for first hand insights into the scene and music which had been, and remained, her life for so long. They all respected her and soon grew to love her for the ever-friendly and helpful person she was. Of course she had a tougher, more stubborn side, but I guarantee, on the odd occasion she scolded anyone, they knew they'd been scolded and they knew they deserved it! She was also there in 1985/6, at the forefront of the battle to save and revive a scene which was on the brink of extinction. Slowly but surely we both, along with a select few others, managed to revive and stimulate the heartbeat which is Northern Soul. As a result the Soul Scene survived its darkest days and has since blossomed further and become the most durable and influential niche music in the world. Serious, credible and perenially enjoyable. More recently Helen and I took the difficult, but conscious decision to take a sabaticle to bring up our son. Accordingly we have not been very active on the scene of late, but we have kept quietly abreast of events. Those, then youngsters - her soul children if you like from her days in the shop - are now at the core of the scene. To their eternal credit they are also at the crest of the wave of love and respect being shown for her now, in her untimely death. They have been wonderful. Everyone has been. I feel humbled. I love them all. I know one thing for certain. She will be up there dancing 'til the end of time, and I long for the day when I can join her. Until then I will give our son the best start in life I can - my last promise to her. I'll love her forever. I feel so bad. Devoted husband and lifelong soulmate, Ian Pereira ('Pep'). ------------------------------------- Funeral information: Helen will be buried at St.Mary's Church, Oldswinford, Stourbridge on Thursday 26tth April, Service starts at 2pm. Everyone who has known or been touched by Helen or myself is welcome. Please be respectful and dress appropriately. Flowers are welcome at the church or funeral parlour. Family and friends will be exchanging stories and taking drinks immediately afterwards. As Helen would have loved and wanted, this will be followed in the evening by a "Wake Soul Dance" at the superb, well known soul venue the CONNAUGHT HOTEL, Tettenhall Road, Wolverhampton where we will all celebrate the other love of both our lives: 'Northern Soul'. It has been necessary to move to the nearby Connaught for two reasons: because the Mount was insisting on all the DJs having insurance, and, we now need a bigger venue (the Connaught holds 400). The evening dance will start around 8.30pm - 1am. Smart dress and impeccable behaviour only please, out of respect for a beautiful, loving person. She will want you to enjoy yourselves, celebrating her life and loves, so there'll be no sad faces, no sad songs. Please make this day into the most memorable of my life. My little girl deserves it more than anyone I know. Love, Ian.
  21. Background information on the passing of a well-known and much loved personality from the West Midlands' Soul Scene Tap to view this Soul Source News/Article in full


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