You were lucky if you were embraced by the scene as a newcomer. I had to stick at it and prove I knew a Detroit record from a Chicago one before I was accepted.
Phil (and others) have made some good points about DJ's getting people up to dance but I have to say some people will just not dance to something unless they know it inside out. You can play a set that would have had them dancing their assess off if they'd have heard it when they first got on the scene but too many now only want to hear what's familiar to them. Not familiar in style, or tempo, or production but so familiar that they know all the f***ing words.