Hi, as you know Djing at a niter is a pretty frenetic experience for any DJ if you are not playing northern soul by numbers. Not nerve-wracking, but you need to be alert and on your game. Any mug with cash can dig out Eddie Parker, Salvadors, Lou Pride etc and fill the floor. But playing something different at a niter and mixing it up a bit - assuming the Dj and the gig are in harmony (i.e. not a Dj known for playing some different stuff at a bang oldies niter)- the DJ has to be reading the crowd, listening to what's gone on before, what's working on the night what's not, and reacting when something they think will work suddenly thins the floor unexpectedly etc. And not be frightened to change it, rather than carrying on with something that's not working. So concentration needed throughout. If I want so see a DJ doing singalong and handclaps I'll go to an oldies nite and probably join in "I really really love you baby, Ooooh yes I do" etc etc.
All of this totally different at a soul night where you can "mug it" and no one really minds, at a niter you can't. If you kill it, you may as well have set the fire alarm off. Not meaning to be patronising - stay well mon.