I agree with all the comments as above - there is no such thing as an ex soulie,once it's in your heart (or your feet) there is no escape.
It's not just the music and the dancing it's about the people and the whole scene, the whole feeling you get at an all nighter, or any night come to think of it if the music and the poeple are right. It comes as a package and their are not many other music genres that are like that or have lasted so long.
Shouldn't think there is anyone here on this forum who could put their hand on heart and say that they have never listened to anything else.
But what makes you a soulie is that you just keep coming back, the pull is so strong - just surrender to it and enjoy every moment, you know it makes sense
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QOF
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