It was with great sadness I learnt of Carole's passing last night. She was my best friend at school and we went through the Casino years together. I have many photos from the holidays we went on - the summer of 76 springs to mind, truckin' down to the beach at Abersoch with our tape blaring with Northern sounds and sunbathers giving us some strange looks! We also went to Newquay together, one of Carole's favourite places and attended the soul nights there.
Over the years, when I got married and had the kids (leaving 'the Scene' as many of us did), we drifted apart, but I know Carole stayed true to her love of The Scene and we kept in touch from time to time with the odd phone call and cards. She was always there for me: when I lost my daughter, which incidentally was on Carole's Birthday (9th March), she got in touch to offer support and attended the funeral - she wrote a lovely letter of condolence and I still have it today, along with many of Carole's postcards, and other letters keeping me updated on her travels in Cornwall over the years and what her current 'fave sounds' were.
About 15 years ago, or maybe a bit longer now, she put me up at hers when we visited King Georges Hall, together for a Soul nite and catch up. I remember walking into the Windsor Street to the sounds of James Fountain and realised I had 'returned home'. Since then, the rest is history.
So thanks Carole for being a dear friend. We had our ups and downs together, that's for sure, and sometimes you were hard to reach out to. You were caring, comical and often complex but were always there for me no matter what. It's a times like this I wish we had stayed a bit closer, but hindsight is a wonderful thing.
What with other recent passings, it does makes you stop an ponder your own mortality and to make the most of what we have and to give the time to friends who deserve it.
RIP dear friend I will never forget you. XXX Sue