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Alex,
You've got to get off your high horse. The vast majority of the soul fraternity would welcome you, there's always going to be some who want the scene to die with them, but they're in the minority and IMO going in the wrong direction. I'm sure Rachael was just suggesting other ways of getting involved. You could also send in reviews of events you've DJ'd at and include playlists. Don't be put off if anybody criticises the playlists, as you rightly say, everyone starts somewhere. Keep at it!!
Winnie :-)