Interesting! I should give an opinion myself seeing I did start the thread...I am(like most things) in two minds about the Soul Scene, my pros and cons as follows:
Pros
Wonderful music-depending on where you go of course...
Great friends both new and old
Soul Source-adult conversation when the babies get too much
Record Bars, across the board all niters (like Middleton)and cosy soul clubs like the Greatstone
Characters....won't mention any names...okay Steve Cato. and Brett..ha ha
Cons
Bitchy women worried about you wanting to nick their old bald husbands
Old pervs (see above and post from Shane)
Up tempo out of tune stompers
Wannabe gangsters
Relentless chatterboxes
Corporate plastic northern soul
Keep the faith? I can remember a few scary nites at Sheridans when a few characters did anything but! Let's say I didn't tend to visit the ladies that often unless accompanied!
However, I think that the pros outweigh the cons compared to spending my weekends gardening or watching Take That