Roburt, I'm afraid thats the same excuse used by many to justify thier abscences from the scene. There are hundreds of Rare Soul fans who have managed to balance thier proffessional & family life without ever having to let either suffer. I also think you are doing many people a terrible dis service by inferring that just because they went WC or other Northern/Rare Soul venues that they didnt also listed to 'real' soul music as you put it.
NS/Rare Soul is/was & always will be predominantly a 'black' dance music scene, occasionaly pop records get played if they have the right sound for the time & there have always been good 'blue eyed' & 'brown eyed' soul records played.
I'm not one for hankering back to the past constantly, WC was just another venue, albeit one of the most successful & best remembered. But there were hundreds & hundreds of fantastic soul records played there, that massively out weigh the 'of the time' pop played, there have always been dodgy records played from every era, but to write off all the fantastic soul music played there in one sweeping, ill informed & incorrect statement is to do the venue a terrible dis service, not to mention the DJ's who on the whole, played fantastic, inovative soulful dance music.
Whist Im sure its unintentional, your soul 'superiority' complex tends to wind people up, so maybe a better choice of words & how you put things would result in a more positive response to some of your posts.
Russ