Your whole post is absolutely fair enough, and well put. As I used the above term, if you read back, you will see in context, that it was in an example I was showing. I also stated "(For want of a better phrase)", twice in the post, so I didn't come across as patronising.....The frustrating bit that some people feel, is that they actually want others to get the same enjoyment from different stuff, and can't understand why some dismiss it so quickly - Yes, it can come across as preaching, but I think in most cases, people just want to share, and enjoy 'their' great tunes in the big venues because they genuinely feel some are missing out.
I enjoy the banter of different views, including when I'm on the receiving end, and 'banter' is the way it should always be - "Len's Rare Sh*t" was one of my faves
All the best,
Len