Not at all Winnie , I just think if you can dance to northern fair enough but when you get to a certain age trying to do all the acrobatics and fail miserably its embarrasing imvho ...as for the little girl fair play ...but i certainly have never taken any of my children to a soul weekender or soul event they had enough just listening to my constant playing of records while they were growing up ..............now they detest it ...all this is just my vho ...........i doubt they all had a wonderful time but thats why i dont do them sort of weekends
best regards
the not so grumpy
julie