Just to add my twopenneth, I go to a lot of different venues, North and South and there is a big variation in the ratio of male and female.
I've been trying to work out if there is any pattern and I think perhaps there is.
Seems to me that the typical oldies venue/room populated with staring-eyed guys dressed in vests, Spencers etc trying to recapture their youth does not make much appeal to a lot of women on the scene, whereas venues/rooms playing music more on the edges of the spectrum e.g. RnB on the one hand or 70s onwards stuff on the other attracts a far more even ratio of m:f.
Perhaps this indicates that women are more receptive to the changes in the music that only some of us welcome?
On the collecting/anorak side of things, it is a fact that women are less susceptible to certain types of obsessive behaviour, (and really that's what we are talking about) than men.
On the DJ thing I enjoy listening to different collectors play, "big name" or unknown, male or female, and certain venues with more progressive music policies seem to have a similar outlook when putting together a line-up. Again, its the bulk-standard, Friday night, NS Top 500 soul nights who go for the same, safe, male names.
Then again, how many of the lady collectors would want to play at these venues? Very few, I suspect and I don't blame 'em!
All just MVHO, of course and I can't stay long at the mo to see the response so I'll have a look later to see how much flak this attracts.
Dave