I did manage to get out of the house occassionally in the 80s, but yes, I do mean that generally I "chose not to attend due to my changing priorities". To my mind I got those priorities right.
I didn't take to the term fair weather soulie as since those priorities have changed I put a fair few miles in attending events.
Why is it so important to you that the scene should be underground?
I personally value the quality of the music, the company and the events in general more than exclusivity....and there are events today where that quality is as good as it's ever been.
When I "spouted", as you put it, about a diversity of black music, I also said "as long as it is good...", so why do you interpret that as wanting a "watered down night..."?
If, as you say, you don't make much of an effort to attend these days....what qualifies you to say that X or Y "are the type we want"?
Like I said before, we are all entitled to an opinion, and I'm a little surprised that mine has engendered such hostility in you!
Dave