I'm shocked by that and sorry to hear it. Well not about being called Soulsmartarse, thats quite funny.
Yes I've been around when some DJs have been yellow or red carded, but I doubt thats just a London thing. Surely that happens up north?
I was recently speaking to a northern DJ/collector fairly recently about the scene down here and his view was that most people down south made an extra effort to get on because the scene was so small. Up north there are loads of dos on and you have loads of choice where to go, but down south there aren't. So if you fall out with somebody down south one week you've got an almost 50/50 chance that you're going to run into them next week. So there's more reason to be sociable.
One of the worst incidents I've seen was at Prestatyn when 2 old soulies who had just been introduced by a mutual friend started a proper old row about football within 10 minutes.
Col