Guest Chris Waterman Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 I have no idea how old he is. All I know is he looks 12. Hi All, I think the boy you are talking about is Ethan, he goes with his Dad Brent from Horwich, Marcelle lets the lad in for now't and he only stays a few hours, the Civic Suite management or the folk who attend, do not seem to mind, Ethan never causes any problems and his Dad does not have to look far for him, as he is always on the dance floor or in the record bar I had to turn him away from the Stafford Reunion as the venue management would not allow anyone under the age of 25 in, their policy. I have a 12 year old boy and I would not allow him to attend any allnighter, buts that's my parental choice, Best Chris W
Guest Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Hi All, I think the boy you are talking about is Ethan, he goes with his Dad Brent from Horwich, Marcelle lets the lad in for now't and he only stays a few hours, the Civic Suite management or the folk who attend, do not seem to mind, Ethan never causes any problems and his Dad does not have to look far for him, as he is always on the dance floor or in the record bar I had to turn him away from the Stafford Reunion as the venue management would not allow anyone under the age of 25 in, their policy. I have a 12 year old boy and I would not allow him to attend any allnighter, buts that's my parental choice, Best Chris W If it is who you say,i appolagise did not mean anything just you dont unless you know that is.
Jumpinjoan Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Hi All, I think the boy you are talking about is Ethan, he goes with his Dad Brent from Horwich, Marcelle lets the lad in for now't and he only stays a few hours, the Civic Suite management or the folk who attend, do not seem to mind, Ethan never causes any problems and his Dad does not have to look far for him, as he is always on the dance floor or in the record bar I had to turn him away from the Stafford Reunion as the venue management would not allow anyone under the age of 25 in, their policy. I have a 12 year old boy and I would not allow him to attend any allnighter, buts that's my parental choice, Best Chris W Did I say anything about him causing problems? Would you let him in if he turned up on his own?
Ian Parker Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Im sure these kids were younger than 13? and it was the afternoon, adult time is after 9/10pm Ken Hi Ken, the kid's looked about 7-9 & it was way after 10pm A few folk did'ant look too happy about it! Debbie x
Guest Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Im sure these kids were younger than 13? and it was the afternoon, adult time is after 9/10pm Ken Hi Ken, the kid's looked about 7-9 & it was way after 10pm A few folk did'ant look too happy about it! Debbie x Yeh i agree, and would said something thats not good.
Guest mooma Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 take it the polls view is defo no kids needed at any soul venue of any type subject closed??? wats the public opinion on over 60s attending?? pensioner discounts given if bus pass shown on door? or ban them all??? when the kids get to 18 they may request it!!! lol sue
Guest Chris Waterman Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Did I say anything about him causing problems? Would you let him in if he turned up on his own? Joan It was not an answer to you, I opened with Hi All, I highlighted the last post before I posted, as that was the last one that I thought was talking about this young man, I posted he does not cause problems as others had posted about kids running around and such, I would not let him in if he turned up on his own and if the paying public objected to him being at the event then we would have to rethink for the future. Right I am off I got a niter to open Best Chris W
Guest Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 take it the polls view is defo no kids needed at any soul venue of any type subject closed??? wats the public opinion on over 60s attending?? pensioner discounts given if bus pass shown on door? or ban them all??? when the kids get to 18 they may request it!!! lol sue Let them attend , as long as they do not wet themselves . Malc ( aged 60 years , 6 months and 13 days )
Casper Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 (edited) Ethan is a really good lad ! he comes n' dances with Me n' susan , Tommo, Liam, Carl piper Joe Beech, Sammy Dee etc ... he fits in so well, does not misbehave or anything...Brent is always on hand too..... how could anyone turn him away if the law of the venue allows ? ... .. thing is lads or girls like him are few n' far between....he is dedicated... and an exception. to the rule... I remember kids let in at Alfreton.....ok at first with some good dancers,,, all well into it....then more arrived over the months ...they ended up running around in gangs like a school playground......so it can go very wrong........ perhaps the way should be by invite only....? pete n'susan ktf BLACKHEARTSOUL ..1ST NIGHT ..AUGUST13TH ...NOTTINGHAM ... WWW.BLACKHEARTSOUL.CO.UK Edited July 31, 2010 by casper
Kevinkent Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 take it the polls view is defo no kids needed at any soul venue of any type subject closed??? wats the public opinion on over 60s attending?? pensioner discounts given if bus pass shown on door? or ban them all??? when the kids get to 18 they may request it!!! lol sue I think there's plenty of posts on here that shows kids are welcome at some venues, but the poll is with regards to ALLNIGHTERS. That Ethan lad is a great little dancer and he's 12 (or was when I last saw him). It was a pleasure to see him on the floor. I like kids but I couldn't eat a whole one.
Guest mooma Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Ethan is a really good lad ! he comes n' dances with Me n' susan , Tommo, Liam, Carl piper Joe Beech, Sammy Dee etc ... he fits in so well, does not misbehave or anything...Brent is always on hand too..... how could anyone turn him away if the law of the venue allows ? ... .. thing is lads or girls like him are few n' far between....he is dedicated... and an exception. to the rule... I remember kids let in at Alfreton.....ok at first with some good dancers,,, all well into it....then more arrived over the months ...they ended up running around in gangs like a school playground......so it can go very wrong........ perhaps the way should be by invite only....? pete n'susan ktf BLACKHEARTSOUL ..1ST NIGHT ..AUGUST13TH ...NOTTINGHAM ... WWW.BLACKHEARTSOUL.CO.UK
Guest mooma Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Ethan is gorgeous I could take him home if I was only 45 years younger who knows !!!my new grandaughter is due Oct maybe she has a chance with him ???? you older men are just jealous of lads like him ??? he's got many years ahead liking soul and dancing you lot are passed it sue
Jumpinjoan Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Ethan is gorgeous I could take him home if I was only 45 years younger who knows !!!my new grandaughter is due Oct maybe she has a chance with him ???? you older men are just jealous of lads like him ??? he's got many years ahead liking soul and dancing you lot are passed it sue What? Are you for real
Jumpinjoan Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Joan It was not an answer to you, I opened with Hi All, I highlighted the last post before I posted, as that was the last one that I thought was talking about this young man, I posted he does not cause problems as others had posted about kids running around and such, I would not let him in if he turned up on his own and if the paying public objected to him being at the event then we would have to rethink for the future. Right I am off I got a niter to open Best Chris W Have a good one Big hi to Marcelle.
KevH Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Ethan is gorgeous I could take him home if I was only 45 years younger who knows !!!my new grandaughter is due Oct maybe she has a chance with him ???? you older men are just jealous of lads like him ??? he's got many years ahead liking soul and dancing you lot are passed it sue Bring her along in November,introduce them to each other. Jealous? yeah right.A mortgage,tax bills,retirement at 70,a job if he's lucky - and then kids of his own to bring up.........
Guest Dave Turner Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 WHEN ALL THE KIDS GET IN THE CAR IS SOUL MUSIC YOU WOULD EXPECT THEM TO FALL INLOVE WITH THE MUSIC JUST LIKE THERE PARENTS DID ALL THOSE YEARS AGO. NOW BEFORE I GO OUT ALL I GET IS DAD CAN I COME WITH YOU AND TO BE HONEST I LOVE TAKING MY SON TO A SOUL NIGHT WITH ME, HE LOVES IT IS WELL BEHAVED AND LOTS OF PEOPLE LIKE TO TALK TO HIM, WITHOUT THE NEW KIDS BEING BROUGHT INTO THE SCENE WHERE WILL IT GO, NOWHERE I THINK, YES I HAVE 3 CHILDREN AND SAMUEL AGED 10 ATTENDS SWEET SOUL IN NEWARK ON THE 2ND FRIDAY OF EACH MONTH, HE LOVES IT SO THE NEXT TIME YOU'RE THERE SAY HELLO TO HIM HE WON'T BITE OR PLAY TIGGY TOUCH AROUND THE DANCE FLOOR, MAYBE PROMOTERS SHOULD LET YOUNGER PEOPLE IN FOR FREE BECAUSE THE KIDS OF TODAY ARE THE AUDIENCE OF TOMMOROW. I hear what you're saying and in a way I can imagine it's nice trying to introduce your kids into Dad's music and night life, there's far worse things for kids to do or get in to. Personally don't mind seeing well behaved young 'uns at local friendly soul nights but would get annoyed with kids, and I mean kids under 10 running around all over the place, in peoples way, running in and out the bogs and mum & dad not seeming to give a fook about what the kids are up to or how much they're annoying others. Nighters, then for me it's a no no. Having said the above about youngsters at local soul nights there is the other side of the coin. How would you feel if your 10 year old just happened to be near a group of blokes (and lasses) recalling the old days " I was fucking smashed mate, green & clears, bombers, we rolled a bloke, kicked the shit outta him and nicked the c-nt's motor, screwed a fookin' chemists in Uttoxeter blah, blah, blah". As a responsible parent you wouldn't be too chuffed about it, would you? However why should those same blokes have to huddle in a corner out of earshot at what in effect is an adult night, quite free and easy but have to be mindful of little ears listening.
Jumpinjoan Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 100% real for sure sue Jeez... that's scarier than a nighter full of 10 year olds
Guest mooma Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Jeez... that's scarier than a nighter full of 10 year olds Do I value your opinion not at all 200% for real!!! sue
Jumpinjoan Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Do I value your opinion not at all 200% for real!!! :lol: sue You will be saying I am jealous of you next
Guest mooma Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 You will be saying I am jealous of you next not at all you dont have to be jealous of anyone else certainly not me be happy with what you already have oh! unless you dont like what ya have??? sue
Jumpinjoan Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 not at all you dont have to be jealous of anyone else certainly not me be happy with what you already have oh! unless you dont like what ya have??? sue Unless you are an older man who doesn't like children at allnighters and then you are jealous of lads like Ethan
Guest mooma Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 Unless you are an older man who doesn't like children at allnighters and then you are jealous of lads like Ethan anyone come to mind??? Ethan is enjoying what he likes to do and so what if he is only 12 he is doing no one any harm!!! at least he aint out pointing guns and robbin old ladies as some do!!!! :lol: sue
Guest Phoenix8049 Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 No Kids No Dogs No Irresponsible parents No irresponsible dog owners No Handbaggers and No Soul Police. (Just Joking People) Stu.
Guest Dante Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 I think the main difference is wether the kids want to be in there or not. If they're at the nighter because they like the music and know how to behave on the dancefloor and off it, then I don't see any problems. If they're there because mum and dad dragged them and they rather be playing on the Wii, than's it' a no.
Guest Matt Male Posted July 31, 2010 Posted July 31, 2010 (edited) I think the main difference is wether the kids want to be in there or not. If they're at the nighter because they like the music and know how to behave on the dancefloor and off it, then I don't see any problems. Who cares if they want to be there or not? Children don't have the right to do as they like, they have the right to protection, love, safety etc... but not many choices. They aren't allowed to drink, smoke, vote, have sex, get married, etc... etc... they earn those rights when they become adults. What kids want to do isn't even a factor. If i don't want my kids to do something they don't do it, end of. As adults we decide what we think is best for them and that's the end of it. For me that means not being allowed to attend nighters and soul nights. Since when did a nighter become like a visit to Macdonalds? Soul nights and nighters are being treated like a family do or a wedding reception it seems to me. The problem is there are adults and parents out there who can't see the difference between themselves and their children anymore, they share the same social life as their kids in some cases, which includes going to allnighters and soul nights. That's just completely bizarre to me. I love my kids, i spend lots of time with them and do lots of things with them, but i'm an adult, and i have interests which i don't want to share with my kids... or anybody else's kids. Is it too much to ask for one place where we can spend time without kids and have an adult life? Edited July 31, 2010 by Matt Male
Guest Dante Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Fair enough. If the parents don't wan't to take them at a nighter that's theit choice and I respect it. I'm 19 right now and I'm very grateful my parents allowed me to go to soul nights full of skins and still be there for me. If you think a nighter is a dangerous place to be in I trutlly respect your choice and support you 100%. On the other side, if you respect and trust your your kids enough you'll allow them to be anywhere they want and you'll know they behave themselves wether they're with you or not. As I said, if they enjoy the music and they know how to behave, it's aaaaight with me. PS Drunken post from a 19 year old who has been in reggae/soul nights since he was 13 years old, so don't mind me.
Guest WPaulVanDyk Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 well this is my view all venues should not allow kids until they are 16 in which they are old enough to me to be able to attend and behave. i don't go to pubs to have a drink and play darts etc and expect to see kids. so why would i go to a Northern soul night and expect kids if parents want to take there kids out go to town, cinema, park, seaside don't even tell me about oh not allowing kids at venues won't bring new blood in, it will when they older not now so it's a big no from me
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 On the other side, if you respect and trust your your kids enough you'll allow them to be anywhere they want and you'll know they behave themselves wether they're with you or not. Thats about it, loads of kids run away because of controling pushy parents.
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Ethan is a really good lad ! he comes n' dances with Me n' susan , Tommo, Liam, Carl piper Joe Beech, Sammy Dee etc ... he fits in so well, does not misbehave or anything...Brent is always on hand too..... how could anyone turn him away if the law of the venue allows ? ... .. thing is lads or girls like him are few n' far between....he is dedicated... and an exception. to the rule... I remember kids let in at Alfreton.....ok at first with some good dancers,,, all well into it....then more arrived over the months ...they ended up running around in gangs like a school playground......so it can go very wrong........ perhaps the way should be by invite only....? pete n'susan ktf BLACKHEARTSOUL ..1ST NIGHT ..AUGUST13TH ...NOTTINGHAM ... WWW.BLACKHEARTSOUL.CO.UK He's not the young lad i was on about anyway i can't beleive he's wearing them baggies of his own free will. In the isle of man the male is considered a adult at 14 i think ?
Casper Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 (edited) He's not the young lad i was on about anyway i can't beleive he's wearing them baggies of his own free will. In the isle of man the male is considered a adult at 14 i think ? the lad loves the retro look.... as some of us do...it's harmless and fun ...thats all ..so yes it is his choice ! they are,.. as a matter of interest original spencers from the seventies ...... nice to see the trousers out soulin again too lol pete n' susan Edited August 1, 2010 by casper
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 the lad loves the retro look.... as some of us do...it's harmless and fun ...thats all ..so yes it is his choice ! they are,.. as a matter of interest original spencers from the seventies ...... nice to see the trousers out soulin again too lol pete n' susan Spencers a bit off the peg for me,when i was wearing em' they where made to measure with 50" bottoms with no name,once slept in one of me trouser legs when i turned up at the casino and it was shut.....had a few pairs of spencers too., but the pockets were not real must say they look allright on him, but at 21st i wont be going retro very soon
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 the lad loves the retro look.... as some of us do...it's harmless and fun ...thats all ..so yes it is his choice ! they are,.. as a matter of interest original spencers from the seventies ...... nice to see the trousers out soulin again too lol pete n' susan I will lay you odds on that they are one of his dad Brent's original pairs Malc
Casper Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Spencers a bit off the peg for me,when i was wearing em' they where made to measure with 50" bottoms with no name,once slept in one of me trouser legs when i turned up at the casino and it was shut.....had a few pairs of spencers too., but the pockets were not real must say they look allright on him, but at 21st i wont be going retro very soon I agree ..they were a bit "off the peg" mine too were made to measure at a tailor ..... but spencers could be made to measure too with fully working pockets etc......as are these.......I bought 3 pair em off evil bay for £5 a pair just for fun.... They would never fit me cos they were too small but as "historical" clothes they were worth it ! ..... then came along Ethan who only had one pair of baggies and loved wearing them........could not get any anywhere .....so I gave em to him.....nothing more fitting than a lad like him should bring them back to life .....out on the floor where they belong ! I have one of my original suits in the V&A ..... I hope Ethan will donate them when he grows out of them ......which wont be long , he grows at an alarming rate lol.... pete n' susan
Guest Matt Male Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Fair enough. If the parents don't wan't to take them at a nighter that's theit choice and I respect it. I'm 19 right now and I'm very grateful my parents allowed me to go to soul nights full of skins and still be there for me. If you think a nighter is a dangerous place to be in I trutlly respect your choice and support you 100%. On the other side, if you respect and trust your your kids enough you'll allow them to be anywhere they want and you'll know they behave themselves wether they're with you or not. As I said, if they enjoy the music and they know how to behave, it's aaaaight with me. PS Drunken post from a 19 year old who has been in reggae/soul nights since he was 13 years old, so don't mind me. You missed my point Dante. I'm not saying nighters are dangerous places and that's why children shouldn't be there. I'm saying they are places for adults to enjoy themselves without kids, and that's why kids shouldn't be there. Like i said, it's not Macdonalds. You also say that if you trust them and know they'll behave you should allow them anywhere they want... Stripclub? Brothel? Walking the streets at 2am? At the end of the day it doesn't matter how well behaved kids are or how much they can be trusted there are still places they cannot be allowed to go for obvious reasons... or maybe not so obvious to some. I also started going to nighters when i was 13, so maybe i could be accused of hypocrisy, but now i'm an adult i don't want to hang around with under 16s thanks very much.
Ric-tic Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 the record for taking the youngest kids to an all nighter has to go to.... well lets just say a very well known couple on the scene took took their very young kids to wigan on a hot summers night , parked on station road they went inside and left the kids in the car all night with all the windows closed, hard to beieve but true........
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 You missed my point Dante. I'm not saying nighters are dangerous places and that's why children shouldn't be there. I'm saying they are places for adults to enjoy themselves without kids, and that's why kids shouldn't be there. Like i said, it's not Macdonalds. You also say that if you trust them and know they'll behave you should allow them anywhere they want... Stripclub? Brothel? Walking the streets at 2am? At the end of the day it doesn't matter how well behaved kids are or how much they can be trusted there are still places they cannot be allowed to go for obvious reasons... or maybe not so obvious to some. I also started going to nighters when i was 13, so maybe i could be accused of hypocrisy, but now i'm an adult i don't want to hang around with under 16s thanks very much. kids are not thick,at 13 i would have run a mile from a brothel or strip club at 13 and the owners would not have it anyway they would not want the repecusions and would any 13 year old wanna' walk the streets at night for no reason and would soon be picked up by the bobby's but i wouldn't hang round with em' but because someone is young does not mean i wouldn't want be in the same room as them dancing isn't a adult only activity or collecting records as long as they don't act like idiots and have a parent in charge of em',can you take your kids night fishing is it allowed ? as long as they don't drink hooch. i'm fine with it as long as they don't have school the next day.............yep your a hypocrit. if you want adult places to go, go be a dj at a strip club
Guest Fisher Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 hello, oh my first post! NORTHERN SOUL ALLNIGHTERS are hardcore, more so than clubs down town! How old is old enough? How long do you want your child to have a childhood for? They are doing what ADULTS do well thats my view
Guest Matt Male Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 (edited) kids are not thick,at 13 i would have run a mile from a brothel or strip club at 13 and the owners would not have it anyway they would not want the repecusions and would any 13 year old wanna' walk the streets at night for no reason and would soon be picked up by the bobby's but i wouldn't hang round with em' but because someone is young does not mean i wouldn't want be in the same room as them dancing isn't a adult only activity or collecting records as long as they don't act like idiots and have a parent in charge of em',can you take your kids night fishing is it allowed ? as long as they don't drink hooch. i'm fine with it as long as they don't have school the next day.............yep your a hypocrit. if you want adult places to go, go be a dj at a strip club You've totally missed the point as well, but i can't be arsed to explain it to you. If you want kids at nighters why haven't you voted yes in the poll then eh Ken? You share your social life with under 16s if you like Ken, i don't want to because i spend my working days with them. Is that reason enough? Edited August 1, 2010 by Matt Male
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Talk about missing the fooking point. You share your social life with under 16s if you like Ken, i don't want to. You make me sound like a perv or something,i said i dont but yeh i would allow kids to dance and collect records and with there parents go dancing all night after all you said something about parental rights,if you want to have rules about age thats ok aswell i will respect them rules..............so you don't have a social life with your kids then, go swimming,horse riding etc etc............oh i did say i would not have anything to do with them..............so don't make me look like shit cause i ain't. And yeh i miss your point.
Guest Matt Male Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 You make me sound like a perv or something,i said i dont but yeh i would allow kids to dance and collect records and with there parents go dancing all night after all you said something about parental rights,if you want to have rules about age thats ok aswell i will respect them rules..............so you don't have a social life with your kids then, go swimming,horse riding etc etc............oh i did say i would not have anything to do with them..............so don't make me look like shit cause i ain't. And yeh i miss your point. Don't be silly mate, i'm not trying to make you look like shit at all. Anyhow i've had my say. I wish i'd just voted no and had done with it, dunno why i bother sometimes. Off down the park with my kids now, for some real family time.
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Don't be silly mate, i'm not trying to make you look like shit at all. Anyhow i've had my say. I wish i'd just voted no and had done with it, dunno why i bother sometimes. Off down the park with my kids now, for some real family time. Yeh looks like you should,bit late now though have a top day.Ken
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 I can only speak from my own experience but Lottie has the same mindset as the rest of the nighter hardcore attendees. She's there to dance and listen to good music. Children who are taken along due to babysitting arrangement problems isn't such a good idea as they'll play up because they're bored and tired. Lottie manages till around 5am max and then goes to the car to sleep or if the venue has plush seating she'll nod off inside the venue. No different to many adults including myself on occasion The nice thing about Lottie attending nighters is that she doesn't see real drunkenness, aggression or fighting like she would out on the Town with people her own age or up the park etc (except perhaps the record bar ). Plus we get to spend quality time together doing something we're both passionate about although her passion isn't as instilled as mine and maybe never will be. The young man you're all talking about is there for the music and evidently loves it. I doubt he even takes in what anyone is doing around him as he'll be consumed by the music like everyone else. I've spoken to him previously and he's a credit to his parents. So, my vote is yes to allowing attendance, providing they're there for the music and not for parental convenience.
Brent Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 (edited) I can only speak from my own experience but Lottie has the same mindset as the rest of the nighter hardcore attendees. She's there to dance and listen to good music. Children who are taken along due to babysitting arrangement problems isn't such a good idea as they'll play up because they're bored and tired. Lottie manages till around 5am max and then goes to the car to sleep or if the venue has plush seating she'll nod off inside the venue. No different to many adults including myself on occasion The nice thing about Lottie attending nighters is that she doesn't see real drunkenness, aggression or fighting like she would out on the Town with people her own age or up the park etc (except perhaps the record bar ). Plus we get to spend quality time together doing something we're both passionate about although her passion isn't as instilled as mine and maybe never will be. The young man you're all talking about is there for the music and evidently loves it. I doubt he even takes in what anyone is doing around him as he'll be consumed by the music like everyone else. I've spoken to him previously and he's a credit to his parents. Now then .... . Having read the posts from both sides of this debate ... Some interesting..some......... none the less relevant ........ But. seemingly posted by Victor Meldrew ................... This thread seems to have degenerated into a witch- hunt against two youngsters in particular . Northern Soul and all nighters has never been mainstream and as a subculture, evolved its own accepted unwritten rules and etiquette that enabled it to survive... Some of these rituals of acceptance and tolerance were created out of a need to avoid confrontation and clashes between hormonal youngsters coming to an all nighter from all walks of life, with one goal....... soul music. something that is still relevant in todays climate. So why do we become so insular ? Trying to stop these youngsters from becoming the next generation of soulies with similar rituals and values? We made the rules as youngsters so why not accept these young soulies ......................... They need to be nurtured not nutered? Without them who carries the flag after our demise?? Have we become so anally retentive that we cant remember the way that the hairs on the back of your neck stood on end the first time you heard these "Played out Oldies"? Stop looking at Ethan and Lottie, expecting them to start playing hop-scotch or tag on the dance floor. Stop stereotyping them and start looking at them as what they are ....Young Soulies with a passion for the music. Have you ever taken the time to engage them in conversation??? I can assure you, especially Ethan that his passion and enthusiasm shines through. He is more than capable of telling you if the OKEH record you have just bought is a first or second issue, or which Dj is his favourite or going and asking to hear HIS favourite tune..... . Should by chance one of them ask "How are you" Please Victor resist the urge to say " None the better for you asking" ..... just say.......... " Fine how are you" and if the conversation continues you may be surprised that you dont have anything to fear from these young soulies. Finally if anyone wishes to comment on my parenting skills, please do it in person i,m the ugly bloke usually within 50 feet of Ethan. Regards and respect Brent:hatsoff2: Edited August 1, 2010 by brent
Guest Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Now then .... . Having read the posts from both sides of this debate ... Some interesting..some......... none the less relevant ........ But. seemingly posted by Victor Meldrew ................... This thread seems to have degenerated into a witch- hunt against two youngsters in particular . Northern Soul and all nighters has never been mainstream and as a subculture, evolved its own accepted unwritten rules and etiquette that enabled it to survive... Some of these rituals of acceptance and tolerance were created out of a need to avoid confrontation and clashes between hormonal youngsters coming to an all nighter from all walks of life, with one goal....... soul music. something that is still relevant in todays climate. So why do we become so insular ? Trying to stop these youngsters from becoming the next generation of soulies with similar rituals and values? We made the rules as youngsters so why not accept these young soulies ......................... They need to be nurtured not nutered? Without them who carries the flag after our demise?? Have we become so anally retentive that we cant remember the way that the hairs on the back of your neck stood on end the first time you heard these "Played out Oldies"? Stop looking at Ethan and Lottie, expecting them to start playing hop-scotch or tag on the dance floor. Stop stereotyping them and start looking at them as what they are ....Young Soulies with a passion for the music. Have you ever taken the time to engage them in conversation??? I can assure you, especially Ethan that his passion and enthusiasm shines through. He is more than capable of telling you if the OKEH record you have just bought is a first or second issue, or which Dj is his favourite or going and asking to hear HIS favourite tune..... . Should by chance one of them ask "How are you" Please Victor resist the urge to say " None the better for you asking" ..... just say.......... " Fine how are you" and if the conversation continues you may be surprised that you dont have anything to fear from these young soulies. Finally if anyone wishes to comment on my parenting skills, please do it in person i,m the ugly bloke usually within 50 feet of Ethan. Regards and respect Brent:hatsoff2: Well put,good post.
Guest proudlove Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Now then .... . Having read the posts from both sides of this debate ... Some interesting..some......... none the less relevant ........ But. seemingly posted by Victor Meldrew ................... This thread seems to have degenerated into a witch- hunt against two youngsters in particular . Northern Soul and all nighters has never been mainstream and as a subculture, evolved its own accepted unwritten rules and etiquette that enabled it to survive... Some of these rituals of acceptance and tolerance were created out of a need to avoid confrontation and clashes between hormonal youngsters coming to an all nighter from all walks of life, with one goal....... soul music. something that is still relevant in todays climate. So why do we become so insular ? Trying to stop these youngsters from becoming the next generation of soulies with similar rituals and values? We made the rules as youngsters so why not accept these young soulies ......................... They need to be nurtured not nutered? Without them who carries the flag after our demise?? Have we become so anally retentive that we cant remember the way that the hairs on the back of your neck stood on end the first time you heard these "Played out Oldies"? Stop looking at Ethan and Lottie, expecting them to start playing hop-scotch or tag on the dance floor. Stop stereotyping them and start looking at them as what they are ....Young Soulies with a passion for the music. Have you ever taken the time to engage them in conversation??? I can assure you, especially Ethan that his passion and enthusiasm shines through. He is more than capable of telling you if the OKEH record you have just bought is a first or second issue, or which Dj is his favourite or going and asking to hear HIS favourite tune..... . Should by chance one of them ask "How are you" Please Victor resist the urge to say " None the better for you asking" ..... just say.......... " Fine how are you" and if the conversation continues you may be surprised that you dont have anything to fear from these young soulies. Finally if anyone wishes to comment on my parenting skills, please do it in person i,m the ugly bloke usually within 50 feet of Ethan. Regards and respect Brent:hatsoff2: Good post mate..................as a friend of you and your family I agree 100%......................have pm'd you Steve
grantdyche Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Good post mate..................as a friend of you and your family I agree 100%......................have pm'd you Steve Same theme different outlook, Steve would it be ok for me to take my daughter Rachel age 11 to St .Bernadettes, Loved it when I was there.And would love to do it again, Main problem is, I love spending my time with -- wife -- daughter Is it ok at St Bernies, to take kids Thanks Grant
Guest proudlove Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 Same theme different outlook, Steve would it be ok for me to take my daughter Rachel age 11 to St .Bernadettes, Loved it when I was there.And would love to do it again, Main problem is, I love spending my time with -- wife -- daughter Is it ok at St Bernies, to take kids Thanks Grant August 21st is the next Bernies......................just so happens if you and yours like Birthday Cake then come down.My B/Day 22nd and you are invited. Steve
pikeys dog Posted August 1, 2010 Posted August 1, 2010 FFS. It's Allnighters that are being talked about not fuking the local Beefeater and it's Wacky fuking Warehouse. Children of the ages quoted above (12,13,14) at allnighters is a 100% no for me, and IMO any parent who takes them to one wants reporting to the authorities for child neglect. I'm sure we all got up to stuff we shouldn't have in our teens, but i doubt 99% of our parents knew what we were up to, and very few of them would have condoned it. No wonder this Country is going to Ratshit, when people think that exposing their kids to some of the 'characters' on this scene at such an early age is 'acceptable'. It beggars belief.
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